A report “Rogers” for the child’s prenatal

An important role of prenatal tutor (operator ANEP) is to foster the good relationship between parents, child and prenatal alloparenti. It discusses the themes of empathic listening (active-emotional) role of the operator, derived from transactional analysis, parent’s legal parent and positive affective positive and, underlying everything, There is always looking for those behaviors that veicolino, family waiting, recognition of need, trust and understanding for the difficulties, use of positive confirmation, empathy.
It is thus not only provide support to enable parents and families to organize themselves according to the new project of life but also that there is identity of form and content as the prenatal tutor becomes the eyes of new parents, the parental figure reference whose roles could be replicated by the parent in the relationship with the child.
The three conditions “Rogers” for a good relationship between counselor and client can come here and act is taken in relation prenatal tutor – family waiting in the family relationship on hold – prenatal baby.
The first condition: empathy
Empathy is particularly deep feeling that goes beyond positive or negative connotations of sympathy or antipathy, is the emotion that is “it”. Hence empathic listening, cornerstone of prenatal education, listening to what comes on the emotional plane to search for what strikes the strings of the deep. Are excluded from this hearing the proceedings, the board, the tension of having to “act to be done” to resolve the problem of the other.
Empathic listening is obtained a personal enrichment and will support the party because they alone are the answers to his questions.
Active listening and emotional interlocutor gives the possibility to express themselves without misunderstandings, to accept their limitations, to expose themselves felt able to do so.
Our listening habits are somewhat influenced by models learned by children and the way in which we reported early gestational age. Adequate feedback from conception will be important for the training of listening skills in adulthood.
The prenatal tutor, urging parents empathic contact with his son himself becomes emphatic in his relationship with them trying to promote the “actualizing tendency”, the innate tendency to its star player, to make their own though.
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